What was motherhood like for a woman in the ancient world?
A mother today can walk down the baby aisle at a store and find everything she might possibly need to prepare for motherhood and to raise a child: pregnancy tests, pregnancy vitamins, diapers, formula, bottles, baby toys, pacifiers, and more. What about ancient mothers?
A hymn to the Babylonian goddess Gula describes a woman’s life cycle as a daughter, bride, spouse, and housekeeper. The most significant role of a woman, however, went without saying: motherhood. The unstated significance of bearing children is highlighted in the tradition of giving a dowry and bride price; both payments were not due in full until the birth of the first child, emphasizing the fact that a woman’s ability to bear children was of utmost importance.
The Hebrew Bible demonstrates the importance of motherhood through barren women narratives. Rachel, for instance, sobs: “Give me children or I shall die!” (
Women could pursue means of curing their barrenness via magical-medical practices. Babylonian texts suggest herbal preparations that could be used to “unblock” the womb, and in the Bible, Rachel turned to mandrakes, a plant thought to provide fertility (
Women could also become mothers in other ways. Sarah gives her handmaid Hagar to Abraham, so that she may “build up” a family through her (
When it came to feeding their children, most women nursed, but wet-nursing was an available alternative (
Images from Mesopotamia and Egypt, and possibly biblical texts (
Mothers strove to keep their babies safe through intangible means, like prayers and lullabies, and tangible items, like birth wands and amulets of protective deities (Pazazu and Bes). Yet, with a high infant mortality rate, a woman had to face the fact that her child might succumb to an early death.
If a child reached adulthood, texts suggest that a mother would enjoy care and respect. Inheritance contracts from Ugarit state that children who cared for their mothers would get an inheritance, while children who dishonored their mother would be disinherited. Similarly, biblical texts exhort children to honor their mothers and find pride in them (